We live in a world where we are so in our heads all of the day. So many of us are working on the computer, driving to work, on our phones… our culture is not very good at being grounded in our bodies. It’s time for some top tantra tips to help us out!

We have seen a huge rise in yoga and tantra in the past decade and this is really important to get our consciousness back in our bodies.

Dance is also incredibly important to do this and we have seen a rise in more conscious dancing modalities such as 5 rhythms and also cacao infused dance ceremonies.

If we remember that we are going to have much greater sex when our conscious awareness is in our body then we can be much more present as we make love.

The sexual experience then becomes much more intense, much more pleasurable, and much more healing.

Tantra Tips From A World Class Expert!

In this video with Triambika Ma Vive (an expert tantra practitioner and international workshop facilitator), we speak about how to get more into your energetic body before you make love. Triambika is one of the world’s leading experts on tantra tips, sacred sexuality, and more.

Here are the key learnings from this video:

❤️  When you are separate from your partner for all the day and you come together remember that your energetic bodies won’t always align immediately. To do this it means you should slow down. Start breathing together. Make eye contact with your partner. Breathe in their essence. Feel the warmth of their breath on your neck. Breathing is a critically important step for a man when he learning how to stop ejaculating.

❤️  Find your hearts. Find the heart of the relationship.

❤️  Slow down. There is nowhere to be. There is nowhere to go. Be in the presence.

❤️  Try the kiss/not kiss, kiss. Tease with your kiss.

❤️  Dance with each other with complete presence. Find music you both like.

❤️ Remember this is all part of sex. It is not separate. The way you communicate with your bodies like this is just the beginning of the sexual play.

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  • Alwyn

    Thank your for this great piece. I’ve always felt bad about not being in the same ‘space’ as my partner after a long day’s work, so thanks for helping me understand that sometimes just because you’re in the same room doesn’t mean that you will automatically be in alignment with your partner.

    • TotallyTBar

      I really think that being “in alignment” has to be a conscious thing. I’m sure there are people who this comes naturally for, but for the rest of the world, we have to make a concerted effort to enter that loving space and be “on the same page”. This article helps because it gives you those suggestions for making this alignment happen with your partner.

  • Mistiq11

    Your tip about taking the time to harmonize with your partner before trying to be intimate sexually is something that I think will definitely work for me. I have been in this kind of situation where both my partner and I work really long hours and it’s very hard for us to find time together when we’re both in that frame of mind to have sex.

    • AmandaZee

      I completely agree with you. In this day and age, we are so busy with different things every day that our minds hardly find any time to rest and just stop thinking. It’s really important to stop and breathe sometimes in order to get in the right mood.

      • yes! A consecration (or prayer) is a great way to do this as well

  • we loved hearing this!

  • Starr

    That is truly a great way to connect with your wife on both a physical and a mental level and to align your energies. I can see how it would make any couple feel closer to each other.