Get into higher states of ecstasy in these intimate sex positions. Presence is everything when it comes to these intimate sex positions.

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If you are busy in your mind thinking about an email you have to write, or what you have to do after sex finishes…. then you are not present.

This is why it is important to practice different types of meditation outside your sexual play. Practice being completely present at all times in your life. This means breathing into the moment. It means letting go of everything else and focusing on the now.

Everything is possible in these intimate sexual positions in terms of levels of orgasmic bliss.

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Missionary I Sex Position

missionary position

⭐ For her to focus on

In this extremely intimate position it is important for her to focus on her pleasure, her presence, her breath, her eye contact, and the movement of energy between both bodies. With time and practice, this becomes second nature. She can also tap lightly on the base of his spine to move energy up to his head.

For women, bliss means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

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⭐ For him to focus on

It is important for him to focus on his presence. When he focuses on his presence it means that he is focus on what is going on with his breathing, with her breathing, with her body position, with her pleasure, and everything else between.

He is leading the dance in this position. He can control the breath, the speed, the depth, the intimacy… everything. He must lead her into into his intimate dance. He has the opportinity to look into her eyes, to caress her hair, to hold head in one hand… to place a hand on her heart and feel her presence.

For men, bliss and whole body ecstasy means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

⭐ Transition move

You could roll into a sideways position from here… let the love making continue!

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Share My Sword Sex Position

share my sword sex position

How to get to ecstatic bliss

This is another great position to get yourself to pure blissful states. As always, the key is presence. The key is breath. The key is expanding into the timelessness of your being. If you have drunk alcohol, or you can’t relax into your body, then the higher states of multi orgasmic bliss can’t open up. It takes full surrender to open yourself up to these states. You can do it. Anyone can do it.

⭐ For her to focus on

She is in control here. It is best for her to focus on her own pleasure, his pleasure will come from her pleasure. A man loves to see a woman get lost in her own pleasure. She should forget about what he might or might not be feeling… she is in control of the speed and depth of the love making.

She should do what feels good for her body. If she tries this but he doesn’t seem to respond then she can ask him what she might want. She should connect in with her body, surrender to the pleasure. Go deep into the breath. Hold his chest. Kiss him passionately.

For women, orgasmic bliss means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

⭐ For him to focus on

This is time for him to focus on making sure she feels appreciated for what she is doing and that she relaxes into her own pleasure and the full power of her sexuality. He can hug her tight around the lower back, or chest. He can slap her ass if she wants that. He can tap on her on the lower part of the spine.

For men, higher states of orgasm and multiple orgasms means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

⭐ Transition move

She could move into a more of a sitting position or you could roll over into a sideways position of a missionary position.

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Kneel At My Genitals Sex Position

kneel at my genitals sexual position

How to take your love making to the next level

Make an intention before you make love. You can make an intention to manifest something. You can make an intention to open up your love making up to the universe. You can make an intention to be super playful in your love making. You can make any intention you want!

⭐ For her to focus on

She will focus on similar things to him in this position. Breathing. Eye contact. Presence. His Ass. She can push a lot of energy up his spine from his ass. Get really close in this position and see how far this position can take you into pleasure (and into another dimension).

For women, blissful sex means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

⭐ For him to focus on

He will focus on similar things to her in this position. Breathing. Eye contact. Presence. Her Ass. Get really close in this position and see how far this position can take you into pleasure.

For men, being in higher states of orgasm means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

⭐ Transition move

You  can move to almost any position from here it just depends on who feels like being dominant (it doesn’t always have to be the man!) It is okay to push him down on the bed sometimes! He will love it!

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Share My Sword II Sex Position

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⭐ For her to focus on

She must focus on her own pleasure. She can decide if she wants to take control of the movement or if she wants him to take control (just tell him if you want him to be in control). As always, she should focus on breath, sound, movement, eye contact, kissing.

She can kiss his neck, ears. She can use her hands to stroke his face or hold his neck and head lovingly.

For women, multi orgasmic bliss means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

⭐ For him to focus on

He should be taking instructions (if not verbally then intuitively) of what she wants in this position. Breathe with her. Roll your hips if she wants to take control.

Remember… it is okay to slow down or even to have no movement.

Once he can master this and feel a high intensity of pleasure with zero movement then he is at a high level of sexual mastery.

For men, multi orgasmic bliss means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

⭐ Transition move

Roll over to spoons (or roll over even more to doggystyle!)

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Yab Yum Sex Position

yab yum sexual position

⭐ For her to focus on

This is a position that neither person HAS to move. There can be a real focus on breath, eye contact, and the movement of energy around the body. If she feels the urge to move, she can also move. Moving may including kissing, moving her hips, stroking his face, or placing a hand on his heart. She can also stroke his back and move energy up his spine.

For men, multi orgasmic bliss means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

⭐ For him to focus on

He should not be focused on moving his hips at all. This is a surrendered position for him. He should just be focused on holding her and loving her. He can support her by holding her back, tapping energy up her spine, or kissing her. He can also focus on breathing his sexual up his spine and into his pineal gland.

For women, multi orgasmic means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

⭐ Transition move

It just depends on who feel likes taking the lead next… feel into it or if you don’t know then ask your partner. It could be a missionary position or she could be on top. Enjoy!

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Sexy Sidewinder Sex Position

sex position side

⭐ For her to focus on

This is a very intimate position. She should focus on her breath, eye contact, and she should let her hands caress his body. She can hold his head, heart, stroke his back, or grab/slap his ass. She can kiss his lips or neck.

⭐ For him to focus on

He should focus on his breath, eye contact, kissing, and he can move his hands to touch the same places on her. He should use his intuition and move his hands wherever it feels right to move. He is more in control of speed and depth in this position. This is not really a position to go hard and fast. Though, it is possible if he holds her hips.

⭐ Transition move

Missionary or her on top is a great next move.

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Exalted Side Entry Sex Position

exalted side entry sexual position

⭐ For her to focus on

In this extremely intimate sex position it is important for her to focus on her pleasure, her presence, her sound, and her breath.

If she wants she can turn to look at him or she can close her eyes and surrender to the experience. She can use her right hand to reach out to hold his arm, caress his face, or hold his chest.

These small touches mean a lot to him and they show him how present you are.

This position could also be an anal position if you both wanted it to be.

For women, multi orgasmic bliss means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

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⭐ For him to focus on

As always it is important for him to focus on his presence. When he focuses on his presence it means that he is focus on what is going on with his breathing, with her breathing, with her body position, with her pleasure, and everything else between.

In this position he can stroke her hair, massage her back, touch her breasts, grab her ass, hold her hand, even massage her feet!

For men, multi orgasmic means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

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Missionary II Sex Position

missionary sex position

⭐ How to get to bliss…

Presence is everything when it comes to sexual intimacy.  If you are busy in your mind thinking about your email inbox, or what you have to do after sex finishes…. then you are not present.

This is why it is important to practice different types of meditation outside your sexual play. Practice being completely present at all times in your life. This means breathing into the moment. It means letting go of everything else and focusing on the now.

Everything is possible in this position in terms of levels of orgasmic bliss. If you have the intention to heal the world, go to another dimension, see the Buddha… you can do it… all in this position.

⭐ For her to focus on

In this extremely intimate position it is important for her to focus on her pleasure, her presence, her breath, her eye contact, and the movement of energy between both bodies. With time and practice, this becomes second nature. She can also tap lightly on the base of his spine to move energy up to his head.

For women, bliss means knowing your own pleasure and opening up to your full sexual pleasure and glory.

⁉️ Do you know your EROTIC BLUEPRINT TYPE? Click here to take the quiz ⁉️

⭐ For him to focus on

It is important for him to focus on his presence. When he focuses on his presence it means that he is focus on what is going on with his breathing, with her breathing, with her body position, with her pleasure, and everything else between.

With his legs outside hers he is going to feel different sensations than Missionary I… possibly more intense. He must remember to breath into that pleasure.

He is leading the dance in this position. He can control the breath, the speed, the depth, the intimacy… everything. He must lead her into into his intimate dance. He has the opportunity to look into her eyes, to caress her hair, to hold head in one hand… to place a hand on her heart and feel her presence.

For men, bliss and whole body ecstasy means holding onto your seed and not spilling it everywhere.

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Kneeling Intimacy Sex Position

intimate sexual positions

How to take your love making to the next level

Make an intention before you make love. You can make an intention to manifest something. You can make an intention to open up your love making up to the universe. You can make an intention to be super playful in your love making. You can make any intention you want!

⭐ For her to focus on

She will focus on similar things to him in this position. Breathing. Eye contact. Presence. His Ass.  She can push a lot of energy up his spine from his ass. Slap it.  Get really close in this position and see how far this position can take you into pleasure (and into another dimension).

⭐ For him to focus on

He will focus on similar things to her in this position. Breathing. Eye contact. Presence. Her Ass. Get really close in this position and see how far this position can take you into pleasure.

⭐ Transition move

You  can move to almost any position from here it just depends on who feels like being dominant (it doesn’t always have to be the man!) Push him down on the bed sometimes!

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Easy Rider Sex Position
intimate sexual position

⭐ What to do to get to higher states of bliss

The more you are both present and locked into each other’s eyes, the better.

To take your pleasure into higher states he can start pushing energy up her spine from the root chakra. She can also focus on pulling the energy up from her root (genitals).

He can either tap gently with the tips of his fingers or hold the bottom of her spine and pull the energy up.

She can flick her tongue left and right on his adam’s apple and open up his throat chakra for orgasms… yes it is possible.

⭐ Other things to try

You can put your right hand on each other’s heart and really focus on the love you are creating together. Have an intention in your mind for what you want to create in the world during your love making.

⭐ Transition move

If it feels like he should be more dominant next, you can move back to a missionary position from here.  If she wants to still be in control she can turn around and show him some ass as you slowly move into a doggystyle position.

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Want more positions? Try these:

Fun Sex Positions

Animalistic Sex Positions

Oral Sex Positions

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