The Elusive Second Date Raw Attraction Dating Advice 1shares Facebook1 Twitter0 Google+0 Pinterest0 LinkedIn0 Digg StumbleUpon0 Email0 Reddit0 WhatsApp Facebook MessengerIn a day and age where hookups have more-or-less become “on demand” through apps like Tinder, finding a solid first date can be difficult, and the second date almost near impossible. Finding those with similar interests is actually easy; finding someone worthwhile can be less so.Take the erotic personality type quizUnfortunately, narrowing who not to go out with is increasingly becoming whoever doesn’t start the online conversation with a picture of their private parts, or pickup lines that are less funny and more harassing. But if you’re lucky enough to find someone you feel is a good fit, that’s only half the battle.Define What You WantPeople think they know what they want in a date; however, more often than not, they wind up settling for something completely different. Those only looking for a one-time night of fun somehow get talked into going out on a date that doesn’t even end with a goodnight kiss.It all comes back to communication. Be honest; if you’re only looking for a hookup, there’s plenty of fish out there looking for the same. If you’re looking to find “the one”, let them know. Otherwise, one of you, or both, will be wasting each other’s time. Draw a firm line in the sand as to what you’re looking for to avoid giving them the wrong impression.⁉️ Do you know your EROTIC BLUEPRINT TYPE? Click here to take the quiz ⁉️Have FunAsk anyone what they hate about dating, and they will almost always answer with, “the first date”. It’s because of the awkward silence, the small talk, and having to be on your best behavior. The problem is, we put so much pressure on ourselves and the date itself. That after a while, we start treating dates as job interviews.If you aren’t having fun, then it’s just not a good time. It doesn’t matter how gorgeous they are; if it’s too serious while sharing a meal together, it probably isn’t going to get much better. An ideal date is when two people connect and feel a sense of chemistry. It is hard to put it in definite terms but obvious when it is lacking. Join Our University of Love & Sexuality For FREEGet the relationship you have always desired! ⭐ Click here to join our free video course & get free Raw Attraction Magazines ⭐They need to be able to make you laugh, and vice-versa, even if just for a few times. And you definitely shouldn’t even want to check the time around them. If you’re looking at your watch, that means you can wait for the night to end.Take ChancesDecisions time. Do you want to invest more time getting to know this person? Even though they may be a stranger, you have to want to know them better by the end of the first date or all bets are off. If you aren’t interested in them as a person, a second date isn’t going to lead anywhere. It’s important to go beyond the usual “small talk” topics, too. Explore their interests, lives, hopes and dreams. …And if they want the same things as you, made you laugh most of the night, and you’re aching to know more about them, then it’s time for round two.The second date should be just like the first one, but it needs to be memorable enough to warrant another one. Consider a unique local adventure such as, going to a painting and wine class, taking a chocolate tour, or other fun experiences for new couples.Final ThoughtDating doesn’t have to be complicated however, it does have certain facets. Initial attraction, chemistry and just enough mystery to make one crave a second helping is necessary for the next date. Of course a bit of digging and attempting to get to know them better is a key factor in any budding relationship. By finding a fun local activity to do, you can take some of the pressure off and make it more fun, friendly, and flirty.⁉️ Do you know your EROTIC BLUEPRINT TYPE? Click here to take the quiz ⁉️If you like this article, please share it! You are also welcome to leave a comment at the bottom of the page ☺️1shares Facebook1 Twitter0 Google+0 Pinterest0 LinkedIn0 Digg Email0 Reddit0 WhatsApp Facebook Messenger AboutLatest PostsFollow UsRaw AttractionRaw Attraction is the leading magazine for men and women about love and sexuality. Founded in 2012, we aim to bring you life changing articles, podcasts, and videos about love and sex. Click here to download our new podcast app! Follow UsLatest posts by Raw Attraction (see all) Finding Your Soulmate - February 21, 2017 Anal Sex Tips | 5 Myths Of Anal Sex - February 20, 2017 Self Cervix: Making Women More Orgasmic! - February 7, 2017 C. Poly I feel that with dating apps, like Tinder, people are rushing into relationships. Whereas a relationship used to last a couple of months before failing due to lack of similar interests, they now fail within a couple of weeks because you are so connected and available online. Where people used to spend weeks getting to know one another and building something, now they play 20 questions on the 2nd day of chatting and find out all the intimate details that used to take 4 or 5 dates.Thanks to chatting for at least a week on Tinder, or other dating apps, I have weeded out many awkward first dates. But I’ve also rushed into relationships that are doomed to fail from the start because we didn’t take time to build a foundation. I absolutely agree with your point on being transparent about what you want. rawattraction Thanks for your input! Some really cool advice there. Maybe it’s that people are jumping into sex as well too fast not just relationships?